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The Paradox of the Escort and the Birth of a Public Servant

   The scene of the civil service exam presents a vibrant social portrait: outside the exam hall, various electric vehicles and expectant parents form a long "protective wall"; not far away at the subway entrance, however, the low murmurs of young candidates complaining about the lack of "private car pick-up and drop-off" can be heard. These two seemingly unrelated scenes are actually rooted in the same spiritual thread, both pointing to a profound question of our time—when our youth step onto the first threshold of public service, are they still dragging along an uncut "umbilical cord," or have they already developed the resilience to move forward independently?   "Parental escort" and "expectation of private car pick-up and drop-off" are like two sides of the same coin, reflecting the collective stagnation of some young people in "spiritual weaning." Civil servants, a group whose professional foundation is "independent ...

The cultural tourism boom: From internet sensation to lasting success, it's never been about traffic.

   In recent years, the cultural tourism market has continued to heat up, with various local cultural tourism projects gaining widespread popularity, trending cities frequently appearing on social media, and unique experiences becoming viral online, bringing unprecedented heat to the cultural tourism industry. New media has lowered the barriers to promotion, allowing many niche ancient towns, villages, and intangible cultural heritage projects to quickly break into the mainstream, significantly increasing visitor traffic and spending, injecting vitality into local economies.   However, behind this popularity, a sober examination is needed: temporary popularity does not equal long-term retention. Many places have quickly become popular through a wave of marketing, but due to insufficient supporting facilities, poor service, and a lack of cultural depth, their popularity quickly faded, even leaving behind negative reputations. This shows that the true competitiveness of cultural tour...

Breaking Boundaries in Traditional Culture: Upholding Tradition and Embracing Innovation for a New Life for Civilization

   In recent years, traditional culture has continued to expand its reach: Chinese-style clothing, traditional music, museum-made cultural and creative products, intangible cultural heritage experiences, Chinese aesthetics, and the revival of traditional festivals—more and more young people are actively engaging with, spreading, and loving traditional culture.   Traditional culture is no longer a distant, outdated, and obscure symbol, but rather integrated into daily life: Hanfu on the streets, tea and flower arranging, handmade intangible cultural heritage, traditional-style photography, and Chinese-style cultural and creative products—all are visible, engaging, experiential, and shareable. Young people's love for tradition is not about blindly following trends, but rather a heartfelt cultural identity and confidence. They interpret classics from a modern perspective and spread culture through new media, making history more relatable and tradition more fashionable.   The vitality ...

Learn a timeless acupressure massage technique to relieve neck pain, cervical spondylosis, neck soreness, and neck stiffness!

 Many of my friends have developed cervical spondylosis at a young age. Doctors say that nine and a half out of ten young people have cervical spondylosis these days, and this is no exaggeration! Most of my classmates have taken up white-collar jobs after graduation, sitting in front of computers all day and lacking exercise. Sometimes, a sudden turn of the head can cause dizziness and blurred vision, sometimes nausea, tinnitus, frequent stiff neck from sleeping, a feeling of lightness when walking, and constant neck pain...㊙️ These are actually latent symptoms of cervical spondylosis. If they are not noticed, they may be mistaken for other illnesses and ignored, leading to the cervical spondylosis getting worse.⚠️ I learned a set of acupressure techniques for the cervical spine from a classmate who is a medical assistant. Regardless of whether you have cervical spondylosis or not, this acupressure method can relieve fatigue in mild cases and reduce swelling and pain in severe case...

You can't afford the consequences of crossing moral boundaries.

   Every now and then, domestic media and gossipy relatives hype up the issue of "leftover women," creating a terrifying atmosphere surrounding women not getting married. But behind this lies the anxiety of "leftover men," the government's desire for stability, and the contradiction between the loopholes created by the one-child policy and traditional social systems and modern survival.   To use an analogy, it's like being released from prison. Modern women have to struggle free from a six-thousand-year-old cage in their lifetime, otherwise they cannot adapt to modern life. Having finally escaped, without taking a penny from their families, achieving economic independence, they still face the fear created by those in prison, casting a shadow over their spirits. They perform the duties of a prisoner in their freedom   , still bound by traditional virtues, still bearing the responsibility of maintaining social stability, still forced to remain silent, still ac...

Let me share two sentences from Douyin (TikTok).

 Two statements suddenly appeared on Douyin (TikTok). One said, "Most relationships can actually last as long as the guy is willing," and the other said, "When a guy has enough ability, everything he wants will come to him." But I think neither of these statements makes sense. Let's talk about the first statement first. Persistence can solve some problems, but there's no relationship that can be resolved simply by persisting. Relationships are a two-way street; only when both people are willing to persist can they last. Rather than blindly persisting, it's better to turn around, say goodbye to the past relationship, and give yourself a timeframe. If she's willing to start over within that timeframe, that's best. But after that time, choose to respect your dignity, let go even if you can't let go, change your mindset, and don't let the next person who wants to approach you be afraid to approach you. Now let's talk about the second stat...

Be friends with books

   Although it's only been a little over ten days since my last post, it feels like a much longer time. Today, I suddenly want to talk about books and ask you a few questions.   First, do you enjoy reading?   Second, do you read often?   If your answer to both questions is yes, would you be willing to tell me what type of books you like and read often, and what feelings those types of books evoke in you?   To be honest, those who know me know that I enjoy reading, especially romance novels. Once I'm engrossed in a romance novel, I'm not satisfied until I finish it. Of course, I'm not trying to advertise romance novels. I simply want to talk about books and the importance of being friends with them.   As we all know, books are humanity's best friends and the ladder of human progress. A good book brings different feelings to everyone, offering varying degrees of help. Society is progressing, and one thing we all need to do is keep up with the times and not be left beh...

Everyone understands the principle.

 I recently stumbled upon an article, a motivational piece, the kind that says success is inseparable from perseverance. Frankly, I personally despise this kind of empty platitudes, telling us that only hard work leads to success, and that without hardship, there's no rainbow—it's truly irritating. Instead of having a successful person recount their efforts and achievements, I'd rather have a failure share their journey. Everyone understands these principles; repeating them over and over seems inspiring, but it's ultimately useless. I believe many people have read articles like "success lies in hard work," or even written about it, but now it seems quite naive. Everyone knows the principles, but how many actually put them into practice? Instead of telling them how to escape their current situation, I'd rather tell them the long-term consequences. What we need aren't those empty motivational quotes; these principles are less impactful and practical than...

You are very talented, so why are you so unproductive?

   What does "mediocre and unproductive" mean? In plain terms, it means being busy all day but achieving nothing! Especially for those who are truly talented and hardworking, why do they remain mediocre and unsuccessful?   A quote from Zeng Guofan might explain this phenomenon: "In undertaking great tasks, insight is primary, talent secondary; in achieving great things, human planning accounts for half, and divine will for the other half."   What is "insight" and what is "talent"? Simply put, insightful people know what to do. Talented people know how to do it. The difference is obvious.   Those who achieve great things invariably possess "insight" first, then "talent." The most famous contemporary example is Jack Ma. When the e-commerce boom arrived, he first clearly defined what he wanted to do, and then gathered a group of people who knew how to do it. A insightful person plus a group of talented people formed a team and ac...

How to improve one's learning ability

   How can we cultivate ourselves and elevate our learning abilities to a level that will amaze others? Here are a few points:   First, identify your own biological rhythm   . We often overlook our own body's rhythm. Everyone's biological rhythm is different. The widely circulated advice to go to bed at 11 pm and wake up at 9 am is not suitable for everyone.   Based on sleep duration, we can divide people into three types:   the first is the early bird, sleeping before 11 pm and waking up at 7 am, accounting for 19% of the total population;   the second is the middle person, sleeping around midnight and waking up at 7 or 8 am, accounting for 21% of the total population;   and the third is the night owl, resting around 2 am and waking up after 9 am, accounting for 60% of the total population.   Why are there so many night owls? Because in the course of human evolution, some people needed to rest while others had to stay up all night. The genes of those who stayed up all night we...

Be your own custom

   I've always believed that I am a product of my own making, and that's all I can control.   From a young age, I knew that compared to others' comprehensiveness, my abilities were extremely limited; I only focused on my core values. Nothing else could distract me. I   used to feel inferior about this, but the more I tried to be perfect, the more clumsy I appeared. After being ridiculed so much, I learned to present my core values ​​to others and ignore everything else.   These core values ​​range from rationality, philosophy, and aesthetics. I've used my life to contemplate and construct them, letting them grow wildly. A person's spiritual interests are very important, and I've persisted in this for many years.   People who dislike me say that besides thinking, my actions are a mess. I was hurt, but I accepted it. My teachers say I'm mature in thought, but my behavior is still childish. I say, you're right.   In school, facing the loneliness of peers, a...

How to become a qualified salesperson?

   How to be a qualified salesperson? These 7 sales psychology tips will give you a boost, making your sales journey easier and more successful, and taking your career to the next level.   First: Don't argue with customers about the product's value; discuss it.   This might sound a bit convoluted, so let me explain. Many business owners often encounter customers arguing with them about the product's merits, practicality, and cost-effectiveness. The arguments go on and on, frustrating both sides, and no sale is made. Discussing value is simple: explain the product's functions and demonstrate them to the customer. If the customer accepts and finds it effective, your value discussion is successful.   Second: There are no unsellable products, only people who can't sell them.   Many frontline salespeople, or newcomers to the industry, find sales incredibly difficult, unable to sell a single item and their mouths hoarse from talking. The truth is, in today's society, ...

Active brainwashing

   The difference between people begins with their beliefs. The   disparity between rich and poor is a product of their mindsets.   Changing mindsets can be done through active brainwashing or subtle influence.   Active brainwashing requires spending a significant amount of time immersing oneself in a particular environment   until one's thinking habits change.   This leads to a focus on making money, proactive learning, heightened sensitivity to certain types of information, agile action, and the use of subconscious power.   Year after year, one's desires are fulfilled.   I've always believed that mindsets are precious, and should be carefully considered.   Look at middle-aged people who haven't updated their mindsets; they're either poor or vulgar.   Don't go into too much detail; they truly won't understand.   Every day, one should deliberately brainwash oneself. In fact, questioning is also valuable; one must first become an expert before questioning bec...

How to enhance memory

 Here are some tips on how to enhance a child's memory, perfect for students to memorize math formulas and text content. First, clench your fist . If a child can't remember something while studying, clench their fist tightly. The correct fist-clenching posture can significantly improve the brain's ability to retrieve information. Research shows that if you are right-handed, you should clench your right fist before trying to recall something. Then, as you begin to recall, clench your left fist (the opposite for left-handed people). Hold this position for a while; research has found that clenching your fist for 45 seconds has a good effect. Second, move your eyes. British researchers have found that moving your eyes left and right can effectively improve memory. If you want to quickly recall something, simply moving your eyes back and forth for 30 seconds will produce good results. Researchers believe that horizontal eye movement allows the left and right hemispheres of the b...

Golden Diet Before and After Fitness

   The golden diet before and after workouts will double your muscle-building efficiency!   I. Post-meal training:   If you've just eaten a substantial meal of carbohydrates and protein an hour before training, you don't need to eat again beforehand.   II. Pre-meal training: If it's been more than 3 hours since your last meal, you should replenish some carbohydrates and protein before starting your workout.   What to eat: A protein shake + two bananas; or bread, oatmeal, bananas, raisins, sports drinks, etc.   III. If you're doing strength training and not sweating much, just hydrating is enough.   IV. If you're doing a lot of cardio, prolonged strength training, or other exercises that cause excessive sweating, it will dilute your salt levels and promote urination, making you even thirstier. In this case, you should drink sports drinks. V.   Within one hour after training: You should replenish protein and carbohydrates as soon as possible.   Carbohydrates quickly r...

Reasons for abstaining from killing: Three things one cannot bear, three things one dares not do

     Killing is the first of the Five Precepts in Buddhism, and the most important thing for practitioners to begin with. There are now some people who say that all living things in the world should be eaten by humans; they also say that if humans didn't eat them, then pigs, sheep, chickens, and ducks wouldn't be able to survive in the world. (If people didn't eat cats, why aren't there many cats in the world?) Such fallacies truly mislead the world. I will now explain the reasons why people should abstain from killing. The reasons for abstaining from killing are three things one cannot bear and three things one dares not do.     First, what are the three things one cannot bear?     They all have physical forms, all have consciousness, and all suffer. To sacrifice their infinite suffering to satisfy one's immediate appetite is the most cruel and unreasonable thing in the world. Consider other creatures; when captured, they either flee in terror, cry ou...

The harms of killing and the merits of releasing animals

     According to the recitations of the Bon religion composed by Guru Padmasambhava     , in ancient times, some Bon followers built sacred tombs and slaughtered deer and other wild animals to sacrifice to the Bon gods.     At that time, King Trisong Detsen, witnessing the Bon religion's practice of offering flesh and blood as a virtuous act, asked Guru Rinpoche, "Revered Guru Rinpoche, the tenets of Bon are completely conflated with sin. They slaughter living beings to sacrifice to the gods. What karmic consequences will they face in this life and the next? Please, Guru, speak frankly."     Guru Rinpoche sadly replied, "Your Majesty, building Bon tombs is like building archery ranges for cruel subjects. Those who killed in the past will surely be reborn into the sinful butcher caste, and in this life they will also enjoy hunting wild animals. After death, they will immediately fall into the Vajra Hell, unable to find liberation."   ...

Stop killing!

     Masters and Friends: Greetings!     As the new century approaches, I am delighted to transcend time and space to sincerely communicate with you all, and to jointly create auspicious conditions for the Dharma. In this world, life is the most precious thing. When we are on the verge of death and are saved, it is more joyful than gaining all the wealth in the world; conversely, if our lives are taken, the suffering is countless times greater than losing everything. This is true for us humans, and it applies to other life forms, from lions and tigers to insects and ants—all are equally afraid of death.     Although they cannot speak, their sense of suffering is no different from that of humans. As the most intelligent of all beings, shouldn't we, as humans, put ourselves in their shoes, extend this compassion to animals, and live in harmony with them, filling the world with peace and happiness? Currently, in the pastoral areas of Tibet, the killing of...

The Bright Moon in Qin Dynasty in Dream of the Red Chamber

     Duanmu Rong: A crane's shadow crosses the cold pond, a cold moon buries the flower's soul. Only     when the flower is extremely pale does one know its true beauty; how can jade be without flaws when sorrow is abundant? Wine is served in the wind, the horn and zither play a clear melody; later, the path is covered in moss, rain beats against the crabapple blossoms.     Shi Lan: Roots and lotus share a single fragrance, a life's experiences are truly heartbreaking. Since two lonely trees grew in different places, the fragrant soul has returned to its homeland.     Xue Nu: Cherishing her fragrant beauty, she hides her door by day, carrying a water jar to water the mossy basin. Rouge washes away the autumn steps' shadow, ice and snow summon the soul of the dew-covered steps.     Chi Lian: Outside the peach blossom curtain, the east wind is soft; inside the peach blossom curtain, morning makeup is lazy: outside the curtain, peach b...

Who is poisoning our minds?

     In this era of cultural convergence and integration, we have absorbed much of the essence of Western culture, but unfortunately, we have also been swept up in much of its dross. Health and harm coexist for many. An angel in one hand and a devil in the other purifies and tempts our souls.     We have changed, becoming more restless and uneasy. As for our original cultural roots, they have been abandoned as we embrace new things. We wander and feel lost at the crossroads of cultural exchange.     A frenzied openness and avant-garde style have become the mainstream lifestyle for many. The profit-driven nature is driving out another kind of greedy nature. Perhaps while poisoning the minds of others, we are also unknowingly poisoning our own. Perhaps in our frenzied openness and avant-garde style, we have inadvertently provided others with a path to make a living and get rich.     As modern people, we often watch television, go shopping, or s...